Revolutionary
'Mom Has Fun' Parenting
Method For Raising
Happy Well-Behaved Kids!

Based on the universal principles of teamwork, mutual respect, honest communication, non-judgmental awareness and curiosity, this simple system is easy to learn and fun to use for parents and kids alike.

You'll be totally amazed by the results... Dissolve stressful parent-child power struggles, whining and temper tantrums. Discover how to turn your family into a cooperative, enthusiastic team!

Dear Fellow Parent,

What if I told you that kids love to have rules, that the best response to your child's misbehavior is appreciation, and that it's not your job to see that your kids have fun - it's their job to see that you have fun! Does this spark your curiosity?

If so, then you are exactly the sort of parent that benefits the most from these exciting new parenting tools! This is because curiosity is one of the essential cornerstones underlying the entire methodology. Having an attitude of open-minded questioning and observation is the key that can transform your family into a happy cooperative team faster than anything else you can do.

Using curiosity, non-judgmental awareness, honest feedback and a few simple rules, you can teach your children...

The single most fundamental skill your kids need to grow up to be happy successful responsible adults and reach their fullest potential:

Emotional Intelligence

Studies have shown that Emotional Intelligence (often referred to as EI or sometimes EQ) is by far the single strongest indicator of future success. Children high in this type of intelligence have a much better chance at building flourishing careers and meaningful relationships - a much higher probability of leading happy fulfilling lives. The really great news is that emotional intelligence is not fixed at birth - it can be learned. The not so great news is that it must be learned, so if you're not consciously teaching it to your kids, it's not happening!

Exactly what does emotional intelligence look like?
How do you know if someone has it or not?

Well, it's probably easier to illustrate what it's not. You probably know someone who uses emotions to manipulate people to get their own way. Perhaps they play the "blame game", use jealousy, pressure, intimidation, try to "guilt-trip" you, criticize or complain constantly, or are "full of themselves". How does it make you feel when you're around them? Do you trust them? Admire them? Enjoy being with them? Want your child to be like them? Of course not!

Obviously that was an exaggeration, but I'm sure you realize that everybody has some of these habits to some extent. The important thing to realize is that they really are habits... Most people are not even conscious of what they're doing, how it affects others, and how it unavoidably sabotages their own happiness and success. In fact, if you were to point it out, they would probably be defensive and give you many reasons why they are perfectly justified in behaving exactly that way.

On the other hand, high emotional intelligence people have the ability to 'respond' to a situation rather than take it personally, get emotionally engaged, and react automatically. This allows you to see through the manipulative games of others and consciously choose a more appropriate response.

People with a high level of emotional intelligence are described as:

Confident Cooperative Considerate Curious Empathetic Eager to contribute Adapts easily to change Happy, enthusiastic High degree of self-esteem Strong character, independent Responsible Respectful Self-aware Self-motivated Ethical

No argument here, right? These are universal values and traits that people everywhere recognize as desirable. The real problem is, how do you, as a parent, go about instilling these values in your kids?

Here's the unfortunate and unavoidable truth...

Without intervention, childhood moods, attitudes and manipulation "games" inevitably grow into destructive unconscious habits
that undermine your child's future success as an adult

The big question is, how do you prevent this from happening? Frankly, it's one of the biggest challenges that you face as a parent. And it's made much more difficult by the fact that you were probably never given the proper training or tools yourself.

It's all too easy to get trapped in the world of emotions yourself - to take it personally when your child misbehaves, to become angry and over react. In times of stress or upset we all tend to "go on automatic" and revert to what is most deeply ingrained - how our parents raised us. It's not a lack of trying or good intentions on your part either - if that were the case, you wouldn't even care enough to be reading this right now.

But you are reading this, and from that I know you truly desire to bring out the best in your kids. I promise you that I can help you with that. But first, take just a second to consider this...

If you honestly "lift-the-lid" on parenting you'll quickly see that the core issues are not how to get your kids to "clean up their room",
"do their homework" or "take out the trash"...

These are just day-to-day situations - surface symptoms. But they can easily take your focus off track. You end up spending all your time and energy nagging or "correcting" misbehavior rather than putting a system in place that will naturally "grow" the behavior you want. This is like continuously cutting off the tops of the weeds in your garden, but still hoping for flowers - without ever planting flower seeds in the first place!

The key parenting questions to ask yourself are...

• How do you balance your own needs with the needs of your children?
• How do you nurture your kids without spoiling them?
• How do you bring out the best in your child - their unique "genius" without sacrificing yourself?
• How do you raise them to be confident but not arrogant, self-reliant but still a team-player?
• How do you teach them to be responsible and respectful but keep that 'natural child' excitement and enthusiasm?
• How do you provide just the right mix of freedom and discipline?
• How do you show them the line between being "true to yourself" and still being considerate of others?
• How on earth do you stay sane and still have fun in the process?
  Is that even possible?

Yes! It is possible...   There are simple, easy to follow
rules that can guide you through this parenting maze...

Over 17 years ago, I had all these same questions, the same doubts, the same hopes and dreams - just like every new parent. When I held my newborn baby in my arms, I knew I wanted to help her be the best she could possibly be, to flourish, to be a happy successful adult. But I also knew that I didn't have a clue how to really do it!

That leads me to another question that you're probably asking yourself by now...

Who am I and why the heck should you listen to me?

First, I've had the good fortune to be married to Dr. P. L. "Mick" MacKenzie. His unwavering dedication to a life of curiosity and human potential led him to develop a unique learning method that reliably takes people to a sense of satisfaction, fulfillment, and brings out their innate genius. For many years we both conducted seminars and trainings for adults. But after I had my first child, I realized that there was no comparable method for training kids, and certainly no method for training parents to train their kids.

That was 17 years ago. I now have 6 kids from ages 5 to 17. I've been teaching parenting classes for over 16 years. And I've been taking notes for 10 years! I turned my family into a "research project" of sorts, constantly watching to see what worked and what didn't work when it comes to raising kids. The parents I taught reported back on their experiences, and I constantly revised and honed every technique, every tool.

The result is a very concise, very simple "operations manual" for raising kids. It's been thoroughly "field-tested" by thousands of parents and kids from all walks of life, from all over the world. The Mom Has Fun Parenting Method works for every parent that applies it. That's how I can absolutely guarantee that it will work for you!

Here's just a few of the startling secrets you'll learn...

What's 80 years of experience worth?

A friend of mine recently told me, "Nicole, you've got well over 80 years of experience raising kids." "I'm not that old!", I protested. Then she showed me what she meant... since I've got 6 kids, figure out the number of 'kid/years' I've put into perfecting these parenting tools. Over 80 years of in-the-trenches, day-in/day-out, on-the-job research! And that doesn't even take into account all the other parents and kids I've taught in my seminars.

Let's say I were to charge only $1 a year for my hard-earned knowledge. That would be $80 for such a resource. But I'm not going to charge even half of that because I want to get this valuable material into as many parents hands as possible. More importantly, I want as many children as possible to get a real head start on the road to success.

To accomplish this, I've set a fabulous bargain price of only $15.95 for the e-book version. This means you get everything I've learned, all the techniques that have been proven to work in all kinds of families... for less than 20 cents a year!

And to make it an even better bargain, plus even simpler for you to learn and use this innovative parenting method, I've added more. When you order the book you'll get...

Never before offered FREE bonuses!

Some of these are brand new material just developed, and one is even a product I normally sell. I've never before just given it away! But before I tell you all the details, I've got to be honest and tell you why I'm willing to give so much away... I want something very important from you... I want you to tell me...

What do you want next?

Seriously... let me know... email me, write to me. Send me your questions, tell me your results - your successes, and where you still get emotionally "hooked" by your kids misbehavior. I want your anecdotes about what worked and what didn't work. Tell me what your biggest parenting problems are, what parts aren't clear for you, where you need more examples. What would help you most? A workbook? A tele-seminar series? A book especially for your kids?

Once you read the book and start applying the methods, you'll understand what I mean when I say that it's designed with change in mind, designed to grow with your needs. But just as I teach you to give non-judgmental feedback to your kids, I need feedback from you. Tell me what you need next so I can make this learning method even more effective. I'm clear that I can't do it without input from you. Where we go from here will be totally up to you.

Are you ready to get started?

If you're not quite sure, you want to think about it, maybe later...
then this next part is especially important for you to read!

Let's get really honest here... I know and you know, that at this point in my letter, I'm supposed to convince you why you shouldn't wait, why you've simply got to act now. I'm supposed to tell you that the price will go up if you don't buy right away, or I've only got 10 copies left, or the free bonuses will never ever be offered again or some other made-up nonsense. But you know what? I'm not going to tell you any of that or try to hard-pressure you at all into buying my book. Here's why...

First, it would be a out-and-out lie. The truth is, the price will most likely stay the same for a while, I've got plenty of hard-copy books if that's your preference, and obviously, e-book supply is always unlimited.

But more importantly, the parenting method I teach is based on the pillars of mutual respect and honesty. And if start out my very first 'relationship' with you by telling you lies or trying to pressure you into doing something, then how could you ever trust me or trust anything I have to say? You'd see through me in a flash! (By the way, your kids are just as brilliant - they uncannily spot every little 'out-of-integrity' thing you do or say, every time, no matter how small!)

Is there any real reason to order right now?

One good reason to order now is that the opportunity is at your fingertips right now. If you wait, it's way too easy to forget, to lose the web address, or get side-tracked completely.

But the big reason - straight from my heart - is this...

Every day you wait, your kids get a little bit older. Any undisciplined habits they have now get a bit more unconscious, a bit more deeply ingrained, a bit harder to reverse. You get a bit more tired, a bit more resigned, a bit more resentful. And those little "bits" just keep adding up day-by-day much faster than you realize. The methods I teach work for all kids of all ages, but from my experience, the younger they are, the better for them and the easier it is for everyone.

I can tell you with confidence that Parenting Rule #1: Mom Has Fun! is the fastest easiest way to have more fun and be more effective as a parent. Start using the tools with your family right away. I guarantee that if you apply the tools, they work. Since they're based on universal principles, they work for everyone, from all walks of life, all lifestyles. I promise you'll be amazed at the rapid results and delighted by how enthusiastically your kids embrace these fun techniques.

Happy Parenting! Nicole MacKenzie Author, Speaker, Coach, Seminar Leader

P.S. I promise you that if you sincerely implement the methods presented in my book, you will see profound changes in your kids and in the quality of your family life. What I failed to mention is that it will also produce changes in your own self. In the process of teaching your kids about the "world of emotions", it is inevitable that you will also take your own level of emotional intelligence up a notch or two!

P.P.S. My intention is that just by reading this letter, your awareness of how you go about parenting has increased. The next time you feel guilty or resentful towards your kids, the next time they misbehave, or you find yourself slipping into a power struggle - please remember that you don't have to react the way you always have in the past. There is a simple fun solution - the Mom Has Fun Parenting Method.

P.P.P.S. Here are some of my favorite quotes. They never fail to inspire me no matter how often I read them. I hope you will find them inspiring too...